I really couldn't have made this site without these people so I will credit them here. Maybe you'll find these links useful too!
These are organized by the page they were used on.
Index
Base layout 'Afraid??' by Teppy's Layouts
Text wipe animation by RV's free Javascript/DHTML effects
Homepage
Base layout 'Fake WP 2' by Eggramen
Background and lace frame from Foollovers
Falling star effect from PavelTheCoder
About Me
Base layout by Swirl
Background pattern by Angelic Pretty
Lace frame from Foollovers